I'm an attached bi guy posting random thoughts and things that turn me on. Did I mention I'm bi? That means not just amazingly hot images of women, but of men and their beautiful anatomy. If this is not something that appeals to you, please look elsewhere. tumblr is full of stuff to peruse.
I understand the appeal of dating when you peel away its layers. Having a friend is great; someone to talk to, to support you, someone whose life you can affect in a positive way.